Refreshment Sunday, also known as Mothering Sunday, has long been a tradition in the Church of England. It is a day to honour mothers, maternal figures and motherhood, but where did this custom originate?

Mother's Day Sunday dates back to the 16th century in England. On the fourth Sunday of Lent during that time, people went back to their "mother" church — this being the church where they were baptised or where they were raised. On this day, families would get together to celebrate the start of spring.

On the fourth Sunday of Lent, the custom of visiting the mother church has its origins in early Christian traditions. On the anniversary of their baptism, people in the early days of Christianity would go to the church where they had been baptised. This custom was eventually made more official and was established for the fourth Sunday of Lent.

Mothering Sunday evolved into a day to celebrate the Virgin Mary, Jesus' mother, in the Middle Ages. To demonstrate their devotion, people would bring flowers and other offerings to the church. Later, it evolved into a celebration of mothers and other maternal figures.

In the 17th century, it became customary to give mothers gifts on Mother's Day. Many poor families served the wealthy at that time as servants. On Mother's Day, they would receive a day off so they could spend time with their families and give their mothers gifts. Flowers, homemade cakes, and other small tokens of appreciation were frequently included in these presents.

Mother's Day became more commercialised in the 20th century as greeting cards, chocolates and other gifts gained popularity. However, the custom of going to church and paying respect to mothers and other maternal figures is still significant. On Mothering Sunday, many churches — including Portsmouth Cathedral—hold special services. The traditions very often include the blessing of mothers and other maternal figures, as well as the presentation of flowers.

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